Change In Your Life

When I speak on change I always start with the ending. I never read an ending to a book before I start. I don't like spoilers for a movie. Traditionally keeping the ending a suprise or secret is fine with me. I would rather not know the ending because I stay motivated to finish the task.

With change though, give me the ending first. The main reason for this is that with any change there must be an ending before a new beginning can truly start. For instance, you get married to the person of your dreams. Although there is a new beginning as a couple you must end the era of being single. Not making peace with that ending before a new beginning can cause unforeseen impacts on a new beginning. Recognizing the end of one era of your life before you begin a new era is how change can be incorporated into your life successfully.

With every dusk there is a dawn. There must be an ending before a beginning can get under way.

Change in your life is inevitable. How you deal with change can define your life.